What are Your Tips for Combating Kiddie Clutter?
Keep or Toss? Sell or donate? When it comes to the precious creations and possessions of the little people in our lives, it's sometimes tough to keep all the clutter under control.
Moms Talk is a weekly feature on all Lehigh Valley Patches in which local parents, caregivers and other members of the community are invited to share opinions and advice on parenting issues.
This week’s Moms Talk topic relates to combating clutter:
Kids come with a lot of stuff. (Husbands do too, but that’s a topic for another week.) Think back on all the baby baggage -- bottles, burp cloths, diapers, and creams and ointments galore. It gets worse as they got older. There are all those precious papers from the preschool that quickly overtake your refrigerator, kitchen table and your passenger seat. When they’re small, the toys are big and you think, “things will get better when I can finally get rid of that train table and replace it with actual dining room furniture.” (They don’t.) Then, you are constantly amazed at how badly you can sprain an ankle on teeny, tiny Lego pieces. With the holiday season upon us and, for many, entirely new batches of kid clutter about to come through the front door, there are many parents out there who would likely benefit from some tips on combating the clutter. Which papers do you hold onto and which ones do you toss? Do you sell the old toys or donate them to charity? Do you purge while the little ones are watching or sneak things out of the house under the cover of darkness? Share your thoughts:
What are your tips for fighting kiddie clutter?
Our Moms Council members include:
- Lisa Amey of Upper Milford Township is a stay-at-home mom to an 8-year-old boy and a 5-year-old girl. A past president of the MOMS Club of Emmaus and longtime member of MOPs (Mothers of Preschoolers), Lisa is an Independent Consultant for Arbonne International.
- Lisa Drew of Emmaus is a certified nutritionist and personal trainer, wellness and fitness coach with more than 17 years of experience. She is the mother of a 13-year-old girl and a 9-year-old boy.
- Jennifer Elston of Emmaus has almost two decades of professional experience in child development and counseling. She is currently a stay-at-home mom to two beautiful girls. Together with her husband, Chris, she owns Christopher Elston Photography.
- Jeanne Lombardo of Nazareth is the mother of a 10-year-old boy and a 5-year-old girl. She’s new to the Lehigh Valley, having moved to Nazareth from Bergen County, NJ in January.
- Lisa Merk of Lower Macungie is a stay-at-home mother of four boys – a 12-year-old and 6-year-old triplets. Lisa is a past president of the MOMS Club of Lower Macungie East. In her “spare” time, Lisa teaches piano to school-age children.
- Megan Patruno of Allentown is a mother of three – an 11-year-old boy, an 8-year-old girl and a 6-year-old boy. Megan also works as an admission counselor at Muhlenberg College in Allentown.
- Zoila Bonilla Paul of Bethlehem is a stay-at-home mom to two girls – a 5-year-old and a 14-month-old. Zoila is a member of her local “moms’ club” and says she is “well-versed in the fun that children can bring.”
- Beth Sharpless of Emmaus works part time in a local emergency department as a nurse and part time from home as a customer support specialist. She has two children -- a boy who is almost 2 and a 5-year-old girl. She says they love spending time outdoors and dancing.
- Jennifer Willenbrock of Nazareth is mom to two beautiful daughters, ages 5 and 6 weeks. She was previously employed by Catholic Charities, where she worked in a girl’s group home in Philipsburg, N.J.
If you would like to become a part of the Moms Council and/or have ideas for future Moms Talk questions, please email jennifer.marangos@patch.com.
Mary Anne Looby
6:13 pm on Sunday, December 18, 2011
I used to decorate the kitchen cabinets with kid art work. In August, down it would come to make way for the new batch. I had (still have) a blue American Tourister suitcase ( you know the kind that the gorilla's used to throw around in TV comercials) where I would put every paper and craft project etc. I figured if we ever had a fire I would throw it out a window! A few years ago I went through everything, packed it all up for each kid (4) and sent it off to them. They were shocked that I saved it all, but I think they enjoyed the memories. It's their clutter now!
Lisa Merk
9:29 pm on Sunday, December 18, 2011
I have 1 big bin for each kid. If it's a "saver" paper, it goes in a folder in there. Otherwise, out in the trash it goes - I actually save very little. Just can't, completely over run with it and it drives me crazy, and even though I try very hard every week to toss, I am still choked with all the papers, art work, etc. I have also taken pictures of several things and "saved" them that way. With old toys and clothes we often pass them on to neighbors, family or friends - especially when they were little we had 3 of the same outfit and sometimes the same toy - so we would "spread the love" around. Now that they are a little older, once it's outgrown or worn out, its out the door for donation or in the trash. I think my kids will be shocked one day on how little I actually saved.
Mary Anne Looby
9:55 pm on Sunday, December 18, 2011
@Lisa, taking pictures is a great idea! I'll have to pass that on to my younger moms!
Lisa Amey
11:46 am on Monday, December 19, 2011
Every fall and spring, I ask the kids to go through their toys to see what we can donate ("to kids who don't have any toys.") I also periodically (alone) gather all those "junk" things that accumulate from birthday goodie bags, McDonald's happy meals, and the like, and donate them to people or events needing "prizes." My favorite crafts, art projects, or the like get put on the walls alongside the steps going to the basement (one side for each child.) Both kids have a special place in their rooms out of signt to keep all the rest, and I go through that with them before the school year begins to shorten the stack. I used to put all kinds of school papers, reminders, etc that come home daily on the fridge, but now I have completely taken everything off and keep them in a binder in the kitchen; I go through it every weekend and purge what is no longer relevant.
Jennifer Elston
7:45 pm on Monday, December 19, 2011
We have been working on this for months now. We have asked the kids to donate to kids who don't have as much as well. We have donated at least 20 trash bags of clothing and toys to the Purple Heart this month alone! I keep the non-worksheet schoolwork and projects. I know my house is cluttered in general with stuff we never use so we've decided to try to minimize. If we haven't touched it in a year--it's gone! It is amazing how much better I feel when my house is uncluttered!!
Beth
8:54 pm on Monday, December 19, 2011
I agree with you Jennifer, about the clutter. In anticipation of birthdays and Christmas, we typically try to clean out and donate what we don't need. I rarely just throw something out-unless it's a board book that's been demolished by a chewing, teething infant. As far as the children's artwork and papers go, I started a binder for my oldest daughter and categorized it by age that she made the creation. Our daycare is awesome about keeping pictures of the kids and different projects they have made throughout the year. I think a binder is a nice way to keep the special things. I always feel a twang of guilt when I throw precious pictures of rainbows, flowers or scribbles (from my 2 year old) out. Sometimes, though, I just feel like I'm suffocating with all of these papers everywhere! It is a never ending task.
Jennifer Willenbrock
4:18 pm on Wednesday, December 21, 2011
We donate old toys and consign old clothes in order to get new bigger clothes. Artwork gets filed away for a later date, and we recycle old coloring books.
kelley joseph
8:34 am on Thursday, January 26, 2012
for school papers...we use nice ones like drawings for cards and gift wrap (make em into a collage style) and rest save for drawing on the back if they are blank, as firestarters in the fireplace, or we shred and donate to animal shelter for bedding, litter...better than filling landfill w it all